The blend of Heritage and modernity.
Byline: Joyce Dube
Twitter: Joyce Dube
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Heritage weddings are more than just a union of two
individuals but a way of celebrating our tradition and culture. On the 24th
of September, we gathered to celebrate the heritage wedding of Calton and
Octavia in the small village of Belfast in Mpumalanga. Both families
represented their tradition and culture since it was a traditional wedding.
The wedding served as a bridge between past and present,
connecting both couples to their ancestral roots. Traditional food like xigugu,
tihove, xigwava, timanga, and matomana was served at the wedding as part of
their heritage meal for the Tsonga people. Local artists were also invited to
show their talent as future Tsonga artists.
Octavia and Calton said, “We are so happy, and we feel so
blessed because of this event. We never knew that it could turn into what it
has turned into. Seeing big artists come to our wedding as a teen really
boosted our confidence. So, we would like to say, let's embrace our culture and
tradition with no fear.”
The wedding was held by both the families of the groom and
bride on two different days so that each family could embrace their culture and
tradition without mixing with the other family. But on the second day, only the
family of the bride and churchmate were present because of the transport.
John Lubise groom's uncle said “don’t know what to say
because I'm really inspired by what my niece is doing, taking full
responsibility without anyone forcing him to do so. It really shows that he going
to be a good example to his children and siblings because they will follow in his
good footsteps.”
This heritage wedding fosters a sense of unity, as loved
ones gather to celebrate the reunion of the couple. They shared experiences of strengthening
family bonds and reinforcing cultural values.
“I wish you nothing but happiness and blessings in your marriage.
Lot had wished to be where you are but failed but it is said that marriage is not
for the weak, but you proved a point that you’re a woman now and you're ready
to start your own family. Go and present me well for what I thought you.” Martha
Ngwenya said.
This was a testament to the power of tradition and love. By embracing
their cultural heritage, couples not only honor their ancestors but also create
a lasting legacy for future generations.



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